What Cougars Wish Cubs Knew?

Why is it important for cubs to understand what cougars want? Well, for starters, it can help you build successful relationships with these women. Cougars are often confident, independent, and know what they want. By understanding their desires and needs, you can better meet those needs and build a strong connection.

They’re not looking for a(nother) child

Cougars are confident, independent women who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it. They're not looking for someone to take care of them or be their child.
As a cub, it's important to understand that cougars are attracted to your youthful energy and enthusiasm, but that doesn't mean they want to be your mother. They want an equal partner who can keep up with them both mentally and physically.

They don’t expect you to know all the answers

Cougars are experienced women who have been around the block a few times. They know that no one has all the answers and they certainly don't expect their cubs to either. In fact, they find it refreshing when their cubs ask questions and seek advice. It shows that they are willing to learn and grow.
So if you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure about something, don't be afraid to ask your cougar for guidance. She'll appreciate your honesty and vulnerability, and will likely be happy to help you navigate whatever challenges you're facing.

They don’t need to “save” them or “protect” them 

One common misconception about cougars is that they need to be saved or protected. This couldn't be further from the truth. Cougars are strong, independent women who don't need a cub to come in and rescue them.
In fact, trying to save or protect a cougar can come across as condescending and insulting. It implies that she's not capable of taking care of herself, which is simply not true. So if you're a cub looking to impress a cougar, remember that she doesn't need your protection. Instead, focus on being a supportive and respectful partner.

Even strong women can be vulnerable

Despite their strength and independence, even the most confident and accomplished cougars can have moments of vulnerability. It's important for cubs to understand that vulnerability is not a weakness, but rather a natural part of being human. By being supportive and empathetic, cubs can help their cougar partners feel safe and secure in their relationship.
However, it's also important for cubs to recognize that they are not responsible for fixing or solving their cougar partner's problems. It's okay to simply listen and be there for them without trying to offer solutions or advice. Sometimes, all someone needs is a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on.

In conclusion, it's important for cubs to understand that cougars are not looking for another child. They want a partner who can stand on their own two feet and contribute to the relationship in a meaningful way.
Additionally, cougars don't need their cubs to have all the answers or to save and protect them. They value independence and strength but also appreciate vulnerability and emotional openness.
By keeping these things in mind, cubs can build successful relationships with cougars based on mutual respect and understanding.