FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Dinner/drinks and a conversation that before you realize it, it's been 3 hours. A nice walk through the park afterwards with more talking, laughing, and clicking with each other. No red flags and a hug and a kiss good night.

The ideal date is just be with the right person, doesn't matter where as long as we enjoy each other company. Drink a coffee anywhere and have a fun day.

After dinner, take her to the beach, parks, moonlighting, and making her feel relaxed. Drives to the country. Compliment her everything. Talk about topics we both like.

Outdoors on the river under the stars good food fire and hopefully love and she does too with the perfect evening

A casual place to meet and have good conversation. After that breakfast lunch or dinner. Walks along the Chicago lakefront. An afternoon at North Ave. Beach.

Gotta feel like we been knowing each other for awhile after the evening . From that point we have an idea if we can walk together in unity

How about a picnic at Lake Wheeler or Falls Lake with some cheese, crackers or subs from Jersey Mikes

A nice venue where we can talk openly without shouting! Ideally, one that may have a dance floor if we click and want to test out our skills together!

Good dinner with live music hopefully followed by desert and evening walk along the boardwalk. Your choice after that!

Coffee and chat in a cafe. Then perhaps a stroll outside so we can talk and start to get to know one another.

I think the first date should quit a bit of whimsy to it. Slow easy going, a lot of talking, get to know you stuff, who you are, what you've done, what you like, don't like, and where you want to go. Then on to dreams, visions, fantasies, and certainly values as well. What you feel like your purpose is, your ultimate goals, maybe a few items on your bucket list, and maybe even the good stuff you want people to say about you at your funeral. Yeah....really! That really tells a person what you are and what you want to be. Of course you don't have to accomplish all of that in the first 8 hour talking date. I'm kidding about the 8 hours......but maybe.....if the stars align and its a good day.....it might happen. Relationships are meant to be something that helps you fulfill your self right.....so you have to know all that stuff. You have to find out the mundane everyday stuff about a person and then what they see at their potential and you will likely find out the extent of what they need in life to make it an adventure for them. Because we all need that or it just isn't fun. Then experience something fun or entertaining and we find out how each other thinks.....because that is really important I think. First the interfacing of the minds and then the emotions and then if that goes swimmingly well and the communication there has accomplished a real depth, then the physical will happen automatically.

Go to the beach, find a nice seafood restaurant, enjoy the sunset over the ocean, then find a nice jazz lounge and drinks

Que te parecería en nuestra primera cita, ir a cenar en un lugar agradable y tener una muy amena conversación para conocernos mejor?

Let's go for coffee or a bite to eat to see if there is attraction/chemistry, and if we click,and maybe go for a walk on the beach or go on a small hike

Dinner, and listen to music, and a nice public quiet places where we can really get to know one another.

Just meet up with each other for coffee, and both of us, bring a white elephant as a gift for the other person. Not to exceed five dollars in value. This would help us to have some thing to talk about immediately. Because I have been out of the dating scenario for a long time.

A romantic dinner, well that's for romance, or just for show. I want to do something fun. First date, should be friendly. If we can't be that, I'm not taking my clothes off.

Meet for brunch, or lunch ...get to know about each other and leave with plans for another casual date.

Meet up in comfortable place so we can relax and get to know each other. Want to make sure you are comfortable with me and the we get to know one another.

How about a candlelight dinner with a walk on the beach a long conversation holding hands enjoying each other's company