FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Someplace filled with beauty like a public garden or a quite place

Starbucks or good nice quiet place so I can hear you.

Spend a good time with the person and also have nice conversation with the person too.,Also with a wine or coffee

Would have a romantic dinner at home. With the lights turned down with some soft music.

Anything from Go Cart Racing, Miniature Golf, to Paint Ball, to Bowling, ( I can Bowl ) to Floating down the Truckee River in a Raft for two.. Not crazy about Heights, but love Caves.. big touristy caves, though I will not go "spelunking" those people are crazy...I stick to the safe trails, and want to hear folklore and stories...I really like Hot Springs...more so than hot tubs.. Camping, comfortably, NOT roughing it. Am not G I Jane.. Would rather do a Tree House vacation, or a Tee Pee, like motor sports more so than regular football, softball, or basketball.. Actually would rather go to smaller local sports events around town.

I would like to meet and get to know each other over a drink,or a nice walk in washington park.

An intimate dinner somewhere quiet where we get to know each other.

Hanging with you will be a thing of joy that won't be forgotten in a hurry.

I think sharing a dinner will be fine or taking a walk along the beach side.

Go to the beach watch the sun set and go to dinner

Go out dinner and then go out to the movies

I haven't "been on a date" in long enough that I don't really know what's available. Also, what do YOU like? I'm quite willing to negotiate such details as where we go, even what we do. I'm here to have fun with you, not to make you do what I have enjoyed before. If you're not having fun, then we're not having fun and I'm failing my objective of showing you a good time. I can come up with suggestions and I have a fair idea of what resources are available, but I can't read your mind: I need some input from YOU in order to make plans for our first date. My plan is entirely negotiable, depending on YOU. I won't resent your adaptations to my plans: I'm depending on them. You know you pretty well; I don't. To show you a good time, I absolutely NEED to personalize it so that it meets your tastes as well as mine. I never did have a standard formula for taking a girl on a date, even in high-school: I personalized each date to fit the circumstances, most certainly including the tastes of the particular girl. [My high-school being all male, I didn't have a lot of opportunity to get to know girls and to go out on dates, but we did have occasional dances and I did know a few girls from outside of my high-school whom I would invite.] If you don't like the woods (or maybe you don't like going on walks with your man), we can do something entirely abstracted from that venue. I really don't care: I'm focused on YOU, not on what we're doing. I seek to get to know you, regardless of what we're doing. You may have a better idea. I have changed my plans before, going off in a totally different direction, when a girl had some inspiration that totally surprised me. Sometimes you ladies hear about things that I simply don't. That's all to the good.

Someone who is really and matured for a long lasting relationship possibly marriage

I will have good chat together with joy

Depends on what she wants actually. I am fine with whatever she wants but I will prefer great restaurant, nice food, chat, smile, dance might end it with a kiss.

It doesn't take a lot to make me happy. I think I'm a little tomboyish; never really needed fancy things or skirts, or expensive purses to know I'm a woman. I consider this appreciation of simplicity a good quality. Makes me appreciative of even the littlest of things. Of course, I wouldn't resist being treated to an evening boat ride on the ocean or lake; a beautiful meal and some red wine. If the sea was calm and there were not sharks, maybe even some skinny dipping. Of course, it's just a first date.

Meet for a drink/meal then if the spark is there back to my hotel room

I enjoy dressing up rather than casual wear, so it would be good to meet for drinks and then a meal,

We could stroll casually while chatting about are likes and dislikes.

Sitting by the beach drinking your fav whatever having a great conversation while watching the waves roll in.