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Shopping, dinner dates, cute walks, adventures, city views, rooftops views, shows. Etc. (I’ll be wearing heels)
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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I dont even know to be honest I like eating anywhere. Theres not many things I hate so really it be up to what we share interests in.
Category: Dinner
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Ill plan something tasteful, listens well, and makes the night feel easy — a romantic dinner, a beautiful walk, and real conversation.
Category: Fancy Dining
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A good lunch is always good, usually something like Cheddars or similar to that end, doesn't even have to be lunch, it can be for dinner too.
Category: Lunch
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I like doing fun and out of the ordinary things, we could go to an open house at a house for sale just to look at the architecture and design.
Category: Others
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A good brunch spot is always good. I like to try different ones. I feel like people make the most creative foods for brunch.
Category: Brunch
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Ice cream! After a long day at work, when its nice and warm out. Nice waffle cone with a couple of scoops or a soft serve. Aggie ice cream preferably!
Category: Sweets
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Grabbing a great coffee and just walking around. I find the best conversations happen when you're just on the move.
Category: Cafe
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Home made dinner some wine, Or to eat out than go back and smoke some weed or have a few drinks and a good movie and bed to cuddle in, I love psychological thrillers and sci-fi , fantasy.
Category: Dinner
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I believe the first meeting should feel relaxed, effortless, and a little special. A cozy café or a nice dinner place sounds perfect—somewhere we can enjoy good conversation and truly connect.
For me, it’s more about the vibe than anything else. I appreciate a woman who enjoys taking the lead sometimes and loves creating a comfortable, easy-going atmosphere where both of us can just be ourselves.
I like when things flow naturally—no awkwardness, no pressure, just a smooth and enjoyable time together. A little generosity and care from both sides always makes the experience even more special and memorable.
If the connection feels right, I’d love to extend the time—maybe a long drive or a relaxed walk, just enjoying each other’s company.
Category: Others
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I'm not a big fan of first dates that feel like interviews, all dressed up, stiff, and scripted. My ideal first date is simple but intentional. A quiet café somewhere in the city, the kind with warm lighting and good coffee, where the noise of the world outside fades into the background and it's just us.
We'd start slow, no agenda, no clock to watch. Maybe we talk about the last movie that genuinely moved us, or what we each believe makes a life well-lived. I love conversations that go somewhere unexpected, where you look up and an hour has passed without noticing.
If the vibe is right, maybe we take a slow walk through the city after, no destination in mind, just seeing where the evening takes us. I think you learn a lot about a person by how they move through the world when there's no plan.
No pressure, no performance. Just two people showing up honestly and seeing if something real is there. That's all I'm looking for and honestly, I think that's everything.
Category: Cafe
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Im big outdoors fan, haven't done much recently because I work alot right now. But for me nature is therapy. There is a country on my bucket list that I must visit... Switzerland. That place is gorgeous.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Mit dem Auto einen kleinen Roadtrip unternehmen, süße kleine Städte angucken, nett essen gehen, vielleicht ans Meer fahren, abends den Sonnenuntergang und die Sterne bewundern, vielleicht mit einer Flasche Wein und mit Musik, die wir beide mögen über Gott und die Welt oder auch intimere Sachen reden, bis wir gerade rechtzeitig zum Sonnenaufgang wieder nach Hause kommen.
Category: Others
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Making memories with you is the best thing in life,cause it reminds us our journey in life with you and how far our relationship leading to
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Something where we’re ourselves and really get to know one another and has substance for both of us.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Can simply be walking in a park, or sitting at a coffee shop talking to eachother and seeing if we are compatible.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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My ideal first date would be an experience something interactive or creative that allowed us to have fun and get to know eachother like bowling or laser tag, mini golf, paintball. Going to a museum or an art gallery along with a nice lunch or dinner.
Category: Others
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Fun times and fun sports. trying to play more tennis as of recently. so maybe tennis tourney. I like monuments and shop streets too.
Category: Sporting Events
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A movie or shopping date followed by Lunch
Or maybe just a long drive. But mostly prefer being together and doing binge watching and knowing each other.
Category: The Movies
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I would love to take her out to a very good lunch and maybe we can grab some drinks after and socialize
Category: Lunch
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